Friday, May 31, 2013

rockin' it on a friday night. not.

Not.

After yaya duties, my nephews are now home with their parents so I am FREE AGAIN. Can we rewind our lives to when we were just kids? Growing up sucks. Responsibilities suck. Don't get me wrong because I think I like where life had led me today but I really really miss the good ol' carefree days. 


Partida pa nga na I am slightly spared from full-blown adult responsibilities because I still live with my parents and the only personal utility I pay for is my internet connection, practically everything I need is free (food, water, electricity!) and I'm a single lady, baby! Meaning, I don't have to buy formula milk and nappies for my hypothetical babies. Harhar. I just hate the fact that you'd have to actually care with what is happening around the household. So where is all of these coming from? My nephews' yaya left again. I love my nephews and I actually enjoy taking care of them but it is restricting. I can't go on my own lakad. So actually naisip ko na yan kung bakit ayoko pang mag-asawa or magka-anak (of which neither is imminent, haha)... it's because I am still selfish. At least aminado. 


They say we all have an age where in we all stop 'growing.' For me, it's 24. I actually want to say 21 pero parang garapalan na, haha. I am not saying I still look 24 because I think I already look friggin' old. All I'm saying is I'm still 24 at heart. I do not feel 30. What more pushing 31? As if a year makes a looot of difference :P

So anyway... what's a 30-year-old-but-24-at-heart doing on a Friday night? Watching the latest Awkward episode, that is. 


I love Val. She is hilarious. Well,  I used to love Jenna but as of late, she has become very very annoying. So feeling niya popular na siya since she's dating Matty? And oh, Tamara & Jake are annoying as well. Jake circa Awkward season 1 is much much better than Jake 3.0. Which makes me glad I finally decided on Team Matty before the second season ended. 

Remember frumpy Jenna during the second season? I am not sure if that was on purpose, if Jenna was really supposed to be frumpy and chubby. BUT... Jenna has reclaimed her rockin' body this season and I admit I kinda miss frumpy Jenna. And I really don't get her this season. Parang masyado siyang maraming eklat. 

Matty, ikaw ba yan?
Witchels.
Nakakaloka si Jenna, lalakero. And you can't say that she's just confused because she already did this with Matty and Jake. She hasn't done it yet but she's about to do it again. 

This Awkward situation is a little bit similar to what has transpired in Hart of Dixie's season finale. Zoe's heartbroken in Bluebell. George has rejected her after she has professed undying love to him which is not really to be taken seriously by George since it was just a Carpe Diem! sort of thing. And Wade cheated on her. When Jonah Breeland (a BREELAND! Related to Brick who was once Zoe's sworn enemy... Who would've thunk, right?) suggested that she spend the summer in New York (where he is also currently based. how convenient?), Zoe entertains the thought.

Hmm... interesting, don't you think? With George getting frumpier, I sort of have switched my allegiance to Wade. Until now, I'm still the only one I know who once rooted for George to be with Zoe. However, when Wade and Zoe seemed good together, I sort of liked them na rin until Wade cheated on her. So when Jonah entered the picture...


aba'y welcome na welcome ;) They do look cute together. She's a doctor. He's a doctor. Perfect. 


I have this nagging suspicion that after three months, when Zoe goes back to Bluebell, she and Jonah will be an item. Feeling ko lang talaga. 

But wait, there's more~

I feel this is also happening SOON. Well, maybe not right away but during the course of the third season. I'm so so so so excited!

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Next season, Hart of Dixie will be airing on Mondays in the US so that means I will get my Dixie fix earlier in the week. Huzzah! 

And that is how I will cap off my Friday night. Toodles XOXO

2013 BOOK CHALLENGE 20-21/35: THE BOYS NEXT DOOR and ENDLESS SUMMER

In fernez I sort of had caught up with my personal book challenge of 35 books for the year. Medyo nag-lag ako the months of April and May due to familial duties, y'know. After AB headed back to the States and after I have finished my deliverable, I was back with a vengeance. Not really. Haha. The book I was reading was sort of a 2-for-1 kind and I didn't even notice I was already reading two books! I just realized it when there was a foreword by the author, stating the reason why she wrote a sequel to the first book.



 The book series was by Jennifer Echols. I did enjoy the first book I read from her, Love Story, so when I finally decided that my next read would be a book with summer in the title and I got Endless Summer, I didn't hesitate.

So what do I think of the series by Miss Echols? It really did feel endless. The story was just going around in circles. The same things, the same scenarios over and over and over and over again. In other words, naging redundant na siya. I felt that she could have ended the story right in the middle of the first book. I did not not like it entirely. I think it's just okay. 'Yun lang it was medyo boring.

I need a good read soon. The last book I truly enjoyed was That Boy (Jillian Dodd) and that was six books ago. I picked I've Got Your Number by Sophie Kinsella for my 22nd book and hopefully, winner siya.

Thursday, May 23, 2013

Battle of the Cupcakes: Peppermint Patty vs. Peppermint

I'm not big on cupcakes. On cakes, too, actually. I just have a very selected few flavors I like such as Becky's Kitchen's Swiss Choco Cake, Brazo de Mercedes and occasionally Mango Bravo from Conti's. So I never really got into the cupcake bandwagon when it first came here. I had a bah humbug attitude towards it because seriously, who would spend P70 on a tiny cupcake? But everything changed when I had my first Mint Condition by Sonja's.

But I have cupcakes very rarely. Sometimes I do crave for it but given that Sonja's is not easily accessible and I do not know how to drive and can't let anyone drive me all the way there, the cravings just die a natural death.
Mint Condition circa 2009

So when I found out that Sonja's already has a shop in Glorietta, I immediately scheduled for a visit so I can be reunited with my favorite cupcake. However, I forgot which cupcake flavor exactly so when I saw Peppermint Patty, I thought it was my favorite cupcake. I only realized much later that Peppermint Patty was not the cupcake I first fell in love with.


Having a spa, I have always associated the peppermint scent with feet. So Peppermint Patty reminded me of foot scrubs and lotion. No offense to the cupcake, haha. Also, I find the peppermint icing too thick and rich.  I do not know though if mint is different from peppermint. Maybe there is a difference because both have chocolate bread/cake and only icing is different but from what I remember, Mint Condition's tasted better.

I got acquainted with Gigi via a cousin. He once brought home cupcakes for pasalubong. It was Sea Salt Chocolate Cupcake. It was heavenly. So when I went into their shop to buy a Sea Salt Choco cupcake, I saw the pretty peppermint-flavored ones through the display glass. I was actually hesitant at first because it didn't have a chocolate base/bread but I bought one anyway

an assortment of Gigi cupcakes
Sea Salt Choco, Red Velvet & mi favorito, Peppermint
and I was delightfully surprised. Honestly, I wasn't expecting it to be good but it was and it is now my favorite cupcake flavor from Gigi's, more than their Sea Salt Chocolate. The mint frosting was just right- not to thick nor too sweet.

The verdict: Gigi's Peppermint wins!

Although I have yet to taste Mint Condition again and duel it with Gigi's Peppermint. Teka, do they still have Mint Condition in Sonja's? Baka kasi wala na. Just in case, they should bring it back.

70

Yesterday we celebrated my dad's 70th birthday. Wow. 70. Seventy. That's an awful lot of candles to put on one's cake. My dad was 39 when I was born so that makes him a father to me for almost 31 years. That long, huh?


Daddy cooked dinuguan for his birthday lunch. Siempre siya na nga may birthday, siya pa namalengke ng ingredients at siya pa ang nagluto. Yan ang daddy ko- unconditional love sa amin. And he never made sumbat to us, not even once, of all the hardships and all the work he had to do for us. That is why we love him so so so much.

Seventy. The number actually scares me. I guess you already know why. I am just praying really really hard for his health and safety, his and my mom's. Hindi lang namin masyado feel pero our parents are already old. As in lola-lola proportions. Pero dahil itim pa ang mga buhok nila, maraming salamat sa Indian-brand hair henna, hindi masyado halata. Everyday I am just thankful that we are still complete.

Feliz cumple a mi padre! Fervently praying and wishing for MORE years to come. We love you so much ☺

2013 BOOK CHALLENGE 19/35: WHAT WE KEEP

It's been quite a while since I last posted here. There were a lot I would have wanted to post here but I reckon there were an awful lot of things that needed attending to after AB went back to New York. You see, for 10 whole days AB was here my life was also on hold. I temporarily assumed role as her buntot. Meaning, I go wherever she goes. I enjoyed it as did my tummy and now I am suffering the consequences. Anyway, what I also wanted to say was my book reading was also suspended for those ten days. If we weren't sleeping, we were eating or chatting so that doesn't really give me time to catch up on my reading. And that is why it took one whole month to finish What We Keep by Elizabeth Berg albeit I really found it interesting.

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What We Keep was a deviance from my usual teenybopper, kilig-inducing YA novels. I don't know how I came to choose this title; it must have been one of those assign-a-number-to-a-title method of selection. However, I was truly happy over my pick and coincidentally, it was very timely being a book about a mother-daughter relationship as we are celebrating Mother's Day this month.

Ginny hasn't seen her mother for 35 years. Although it was against her will to go visit her mother, she had to as it was the wish of her elder sister, Sharla, who may or may have not have a terminal illness. Ginny hated her mother. I wanted to know why.

The book consisted mainly of flashbacks to Ginny and Sharla's childhood. Pleasantville-ish. And the moms, Stepford Wives-ish. Ginny and Sharla have led a happy, normal childhood until the time when their mother packed up and left. Their mother did have her reasons which were revealed later on, but I understand where Ginny was coming from. Only twelve years old, I could just imagine how disoriented she must have felt when their mom just left. Sure they already noticed something was different with her but nothing had prepared them for the trauma of being abandoned by their own mother.

We later on find out that Mom did have her reasons for leaving- that she felt empty and felt the need to follow her dreams and his husband slept with the next-door neighbor. But what baffles me is why was she able to forgive the next-door neighbor easily but left the husband?

"It's funny how, oftentimes, the people you love the most
are given the least margin for error."

I have always felt that when one gets married and have children, the person takes the back seat. I believe that the children should be the main consideration from now on. Mom left because she wasn't happy anymore, she wanted to find her happiness even at the expense of her own children's happiness. So you see I understood why Ginny and Sharla hated their mother. It was heartbreaking when these two young girls were suddenly left by their mother. The only good thing that arose from this event was that the two sisters have become very, very close as they found solace in each other. But still, it was a very selfish thing thing what the mother did. 

However, it was also a heartbreaking moment when the mother went back and tried to be a part of her children's lives but they just rejected her. Well, she asked for it. Her kids felt betrayed by her when she just suddenly left without any warning. Moreso, when her kids heard her say that she didn't even want them in the first place, that they hindered her from being what she originally had planned to be. 

Time heals all wounds but a little explanation can help, too. It's just sad that it took them 35 long years to finally forgive and not be there for each other's milestones. But at they say, the journey is the destination. Some things happen in our lives and in that moment, we do not understand why it happens but eventually we see why.
"Well, this may sound odd. But what really brought me comfort was  going to big university bookstores and looking at the physics books." My eyes snap open at this. I can't believe we both seek solace in science, and that we never knew this about each other. You can't get away from some things. You say you're turning your back on someone, and you start off down a long road, and you walk so very far, and then you find out the road is just a big circle and you are back where you started. I laugh to myself, close my eyes again. "I didn't really understand them," my mother says, "but the illustrations were so graceful and the writing seemed so wise and compassionate. Those books was beyond my comprehension, but there was a logic, a reason for things happening. It made me see that humans are very small and insignificant; that all our triumphs and errors don't really amount to much at all. There are times that notion can scare you or depress you; but there are other times when thinking about it can help you sleep. Things like- well, I would read something like the first law of thermodynamics and just find it enormously comforting. I still do. Think of it, the notion of nothing ever being lost, of it just changing form."
It was a beautiful story written very well. I am sure most girls can relate to this. I remember telling my sister about this book and described to her that it's a story of a girl/woman who hated her mother so much. She told me, "parang ikaw?"  To which, I beg to differ. I do not hate my mother. I love her and appreciate everything she does for me, for us. But I think mothers and daughters are really meant to bicker and criticize each other even about the most mundane things. 

After reading this book, I think I understand my mother more, where she's coming from but mothers, I think, also need to realize that their daughters are their own persons with their own interests and opinions and they need to respect that. Not because she likes arroz valenciana, her daughter does too? 
It had to do with my offering my daughters what I so needed and was denied. I couldn't imagine why they wouldn't be grateful. How could they not be grateful when surely they could see that I was only trying to love them, to give them what I knew they needed- whether they knew it or not?
Sometimes, you just have to let her see for herself. Let her commit that mistake. Man meets his destiny on the road he took to avoid it. In other words, kahit ano mang pag-iwas, we all eventually become our mothers. Ayayayay! Keri ko bang mag-crochet top na walang sando 'pag 60 na ako? Haha. 

Saturday, May 11, 2013

ANG PAGBABALIK NG IBONG ADARNA

And just like that, ten days just flew by.

I have so much kwento dating since last, last Sunday so please forgive me if I'm being more incoherent than usual. As you all know, my three beloved readers, my sister's who is based in the States came home after three long years. Three years. Sure we do call her via magic jack at least once a week and we get to update each other with what's happening in our lives via Facebook, but still nothing beats face-to-face conversations and actual hugs (as opposed to the virtual ones).

AB arrived April 30th. Mommy, AC, the kids and I fetched her from the airport. It was, more or less, an hour's wait before we get to see her in the flesh once again. There were no over-the-top welcomes, there were no tears. Sorry naman kung medyo hindi kami showy with emotions and I know she knows that. When ate got into the van, the kids were already sleeping. Welcoming committee fail.

Here's a recap of what we did for ten whole days. I say "we"because I became her buntot during her stay. Wherever she goes, I go. Except for that one day when she got her international license and AD said we're going to enroll for Citisec.

As expected, most of the time was spent catching up with family and her friends. It was exhausting shuttling ourselves from one location to another. She must have wasted a lot of her precious time on the road in terrible traffic. Since time is of the essence, she should have imposed on her friends na lang the venue. Haha. But seriously, time is of the essence here. Eh di sana nakarami siya at hindi pa siya masyado pagod. What I don't get is why were some of her friends pa-importante? Cos if it were me, I would find a way. Oh well. Spilled milk already so no use fretting over.

For mommy's birthday, mommy & daddy's 41st wedding anniversary and AB's homecoming, AD organized a family outing. On May 2, we set out for Anvaya Cove in Bataan. We were supposed to leave at 5am but since we're a big family, we were rarely on time. Think of the Home Alone scenario on the morning of their flight. Yup. Pretty much like that. We left home at 7:30 am.

It was a three-hour travel going there. I love road trips cos I love love love looking at the scenery. Although I was asleep majority of the time during this trip. When we arrived, the kids jumped in the pool right away. Since I wasn't planning on going for a swim, I was the (un)official photographer. I'm sorry I can't share my family pictures here, but I have several nice pictures of stuff.

at the anvaya cove #nofilter
Or rather, #unphotoshopped. Haha. Lunch wasn't really that good. Just really expensive and not in a funny way. Buti na lang hindi ko toca :P

I finally decided to go for a swim because I think I should, to make the most of the entrance fee. Sayang naman. So with my fugly bathing suit and shorts that could pass off as board shorts but aren't really board shorts, I played shark with my nephews.

DO NOT ENLARGE. I repeat, DO NOT ENLARGE.
For someone with a nail spa, I have the fugliest feet ever. My feet and hands are my frustrations. I must have tried a bazillion exfoliating and/or whitening products for them and nothing has worked yet. But I have pretty little nails...
Day 1 sunset

At around 5 pm, we called it a day. We spent the night at the Mango Valley in Subic.


My nephews were super mega over kulit. Yes, they're very adorable BUT they're quite a handful. I always tell people that nephews are better because you can always return them to their parents when they get whiny, boisterous or bratty.

Our room was nothing fancy. We shared room with our parents, AC, AB and me. AC and I slept on the extra mattresses. It's clean, spacious and it has a big bathroom. Though it could have been better if the shower area was enclosed, like someone could still pee even if someone's in the shower.

We went to Harbor Point for dinner. It was at Café Balooga- ang aking restaurant. Haha. We had panizza, pasta and nachos. Yummy!


It was delicious but not very filling. When I woke up the next morning, I was already famished.

The next day was just for gallivanting around the mall while waiting for my nephews and sister who went to watch the dolphin at the Ocean Adventure.


As we already checked out of our hotel, we needed a place to hang out in while waiting for the kids. I still prefer Starbucks but AB suggested Tully's. I ordered their version of mocha frap and as expected, it didn't measure up to my favorite frappuccino. It was very sweet and that's coming from someone with a very, very sweet tooth.

We picked the kids up from Ocean Adventure around 5pm.

Too bad the kids were already groggy and lacked sleep; ergo, they didn't get to appreciate the show that much. It was almost night time and it was still a long way back home. Good thing I have the beautiful scenery to look at.

Day 2 sunset
The traffic was really bad and we got back late. My feet were killing me as I was cramped in that very small space, but I'm still lucky I'm not Nonoy who was driving the whole entire time.

For the weekend, AB did a little meet & greet again with some of her friends. Of course, mega buntot na naman ako ever. While AB did a little catching up with her friends, AC and I braved the Megamall riot sale.

Monday, AB renewed her driver's license and I got my student's license. Whoopdeedoo! I'm a step closer to learning how to drive. Anyway, after securing our licenses, we headed off to Greenhills for a little shopping. Lunch first at Le Ching then dessert at Milky Way. Ang ending, there was no shopping done because we spent most of the time eating. At dahil ang driver namin ay may pinapakain sa bahay at kailangan nang umuwi, we had to go home already.

AB got her international driving license on Tuesday. I was off the hook from waking up too early because AD said we were going to Citisec which didn't push through. But still I was grateful for the the extra hour of sleep. After lunch, we went to Kopi Roti for AB's kopi bun fix. This must have been the third time we've been there. Then Megamall after for a little clothes shopping again. Dinner and coffee with cousin. The third or fourth mocha frap I've consumed in a span of eight days.

Wednesday ay pagbibigay-pugay kay Auntie Madre. We were supposed to leave at 6 am but did at 7:30 so and ending, nakisabay sa mega rush hour traffic. We reached Dasmariñas, Cavite at 11 am. Lunch at Gerry's Grill at The District. Masarap naman pero nakakaawa yung grilled liempo nila. The sorry-looking liempo was P165. I could have had the same size of liempo for P99 at Chic Boy, may unlimited rice at soup pa! After lunch, we rushed to MOA to meet with Kuya B and family. MOA where Aerosmith would be having their concert that very same night. Aigoo.

reminds me of the SG Flyer
Merienda at Cafe Tokyo. I swear si AB ang galing galing talaga pumili ng kakainan. Cafe Tokyo's expensive and the Coffee jelly ice cream I ordered that's more expensive than a venti Mocha Frap wasn't satisfying. In fernez, she wanted Kopi Roti sana but her beloved coffee shop has closed their MOA branch already.

Again, traffic going home was horrendous. It took us two hours from MOA to Pasig.

Thursday was hectic, too, but that was because we started the day late. Lunch at Magoo's in Eastwood then had our haircut at Azta while AB had her hair rebonded and had her cellophane treatment. So there, I had a haircut which was very spiffy went I walked out of the salon, but I know the real story will always be the next day after one washes her hair and the magic of the blowout wears off. So anyway, while AB was having her hair tortured to beauty, AD and I had our nails done at I Do Nails. I enjoyed the experience- pleasant and relaxing. I chose a glittery polish from OPI and since it required thick layers, they had to used the nail dryer on my digits.

And it was excruciating in two ways- 1) it took so long dry out, and 2) it would sometimes get too hot already. But I don't want to waste all the effort the nail tech did on my nails so I endured the torture #OA walang basagan ng trip, eh sa gusto kong mag-hashtag. Ha.


It's so pretty, isn't it? :)

After 5 hours, we made our way to Greenbelt where she'll be meeting with friends. Pork chop dinner again and this was the second time I've had pork chop, ergo, a very happy tummy. AD went home ahead of us, leaving me with AB and friends. They transferred to Spicy Fingers where there's a live band cum stand-up comedy act. In fair, nakakatawa naman siya. The crowd just reminded me of that RJTV show at 2nd Avenue every Friday at 10pm. Matronix much?

And so we reach Friday, the day she goes back to the Big Apple. It is sad. Although there were times when I get annoyed at AB and I know there were times she'd get annoyed at me, too, it's still better when you live close to each other. I wonder when she'll be able to come home again. I hope it wouldn't take her three long years again. J would be six and JJ, 5. I also pray I'd be able to finally get my arse to apply for a visa. The family brought her to the airport. Traffic (na naman!) was horrendous. We left home at 6pm and arrived at the airport at 9. Qué horror talaga. Said our goodbyes, et voila~

And now I am alone in my room, without an excuse to turn on the AC. It's a little disorienting. For ten days, I was with my sisters and now I am all alone. Senti mode na naman ako. It's weird because during those ten days I wished for some alone time and now that I am alone, I wish I were with my sisters once again.

It was fun, though. I must have gained twenty pounds from all the eating we've done. Kailangan na talaga mag-Zumba niyan. Haha.

Sunday, May 5, 2013

SELOS JEALOUS

The only reason why I hang on to The Carrie Diaries is Sebastian Kydd who is Austin Butler in real life who happens to be Vanessa Hudgens' boytoy in real life. Ermahgerd!!! I'm so inggit. And ever since High School Musical 2, I have found Vanessa Hudgens really really annoying and with the information I have found out very recently, I am more annoyed at her than ever.

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and I am so annoyed because she just keeps parading with him by her side, as if showing off her latest arm candy. Ugh, so annoying.

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Kainezz that girl.

But here's my pampalubag-loob~

He once looked like this
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What's the fascination over bangs ba? Haha. But he still looks muy caliente ahora. Hudgens smudgens.
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